don't you think that flash is become a standard.
especially with populair websites like video.google.com / youtube.com and myspace.com all using flash

I think that someone thinking that flash is not done, is thinking 2003 or so
people now just WANT to have the latest version because video is the hype
and most video sites use flash for streaming videos

so use flash where ever you want, only make sure that they do not have to click on flash objects to activate them