Quote Originally Posted by gaybucks_chip View Post
When I first started reading Patti's posts a couple years ago, I was thinking "Boy, she's harsh" but then I realized that the no-BS approach is exactly what everyone needs if they can get past their own egos.
agreed! , my thoughts at first but then it occured to me the other day while i was at T.G.I.F stuffing two pieces of vanilla bean cheescake down my throat (food helps me think!) that it would seem we are more "comfortable" hearing harsh comments comming from a friend/acquaintance because we expect them to tell us the truth v.s being hit cold by someone we don't know and/or doesn't know us (does that make any sense to anyone?)
in short life is about learning , so i thought i'd add this to the discussion , as with anything i post copy the nude pics to a folder and disregard the rest , your attention as always is appreciated!

sincerely ~ ..."ben" - michael jackson (okay , so some of you i fondly think of as a pet "rat") :fool: