I would definitely say there is at least discomfort, if not downright homophobia among a fair number of webmasters.

I've been at small industry events where we were the only gay people there, and the only people with a gay program there... and while people were reasonably friendly, it was pretty clear they weren't the least bit comfortable with gay stuff. When we offered to show our "shameless promotion" (the little cards describing the sites), all the guys were like "Oh, that's OK, I don't need to see that."

I find that rather amusing because (a) it's not like I'm scarred or offended by looking at tits or snatch and (b) all these damn webmasters have dicks and asses themselves, and they've certainly cum a few times, so I don't really get why it's scary to look at a picture with dicks in it.