www.askdamagex.com
great guys there - crak, who was one of the founders, has posted here. the catch is that most of the guys there are traffic traders and tgp/mgp owners and there are not a lot of paysite owners. still there are some folks with a huge knowledge base who i've known for years.

while i'd like to say www.adultwebmasterinfo.com , which was my first home board, it's not as busy as it used to be. some days it jams but others it only does maybe 10 posts. folks there are nice and know their stuff, but i admit that recently there have been an influx of newbs.