there are very few "gay-theme" movies produced in "mainstream" which are any good and/or "present" gay's in a positive light (i would hate to be a teen in the midwest and have to rely on "birdcage" , "to wong fu , love julie newmar" , "etc. to be my "rolemodels" in developing my "character")
now if you took something like "armagedon" had "b*uce willis" as the lead gay character with "b*n affleck" as "the boy-toy always in trouble" threw in the "the spike bar" oil rigging crew (there needs to be alot more "shirtless" and "scantly-clad" clothing scenes , perhaps nude swimming for this to truly be "box-office" effective!) and had them save the world for all of mankind (gays and straights alike) proving once and for all that not all gays are "hairstylists" and "limp-wristed" fairy-wand carrying nymphomaniacs spreading our message of "style" and "gay-conversion" to men & women across the land. (the deleted scene would be liv tyler as the stripper in a men's club who is a lesbian who must endure the indignities of not only being a "piece of meat" but also must hide her sexuality in order to "turn a buck!")
i don't see "heterowood" changing anytime soon (not enough stars "comming-out") so probably the best way to "combat" this would be not to "support" this type of media (the only thing hollywood understands is ticket sales so hit them where it hurts!) and write "negatively" to keep others from it. (this unfortunately does not always work , you tell someone something is bad and they go to see it , to see "just how bad" it is!)

sincerely ~ ..."a band of hairstylists"... :fool: