How wild (or mild) are you?

[Xstr8guy]

Also, here's another excellent movie about relationships and sex

Crash 1996 from David Cronenberg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c6wQn0tIvHw

I just watched that again a few weeks ago. That is truly one of the most unpleasant and unsettling movies I've ever seen. I couldn't recommend that to anyone. Lol. I don't even know why I watched it again.

[XXXWriterDude]

Gezz...I, or we, my partner and I must be really weird or something. We've been together since we were, well, twinks, almost 21 years now, and we've been monogamous all that time. Of course, we both "window shop" that's just impossible not to do, unless you're dead I guess.

I don't believe in window shopping. If you can't afford to bring the goods home, don't go looking for something to buy.

Of course, I say this because I HATE it when gay guys come on to me in the bars and get me all horned up and then put a stop to it because they "have to be good."

Once you get me horned up and excited, it's NOT OK to give me blue balls. LOL!

[Sana Chan]

Though its geared towards the gay men, I'd have to go with the first one. Though apparently the gay community has banned together to form a Human Chastity belt for me. Every gay friend I have is like, "Do NOT have sex until you meet 'mr. right'".

[XXXWriterDude]

Though its geared towards the gay men, I'd have to go with the first one. Though apparently the gay community has banned together to form a Human Chastity belt for me. Every gay friend I have is like, "Do NOT have sex until you meet 'mr. right'".

WRETCH!

That was the sound of me puking. As if gay men should talk about chastity! LOL!

[DonMike]

I'm afraid there's nothing in your little black bag for me (get the reference? hee hee)

How about, "Open to lots of things as long as my partner has the appropriate hardware and knows how to use it" :daddy: :donmike: :cheekymonkey:

[robin]

OK I voted for: Monogamous in a relationship and VERY selective when not.

However that doesn't mean that I encourage others to do the same. Nor does it mean that when I'm out of a relationship of signifigance that I don't like my play time -- I'm just kinda picky about who -- well sorta.

If you're piggy or slutty -- so what -- if it turns your crank -- awesome. That's my basic philosophy.

P.S. I know how to operate the hardware.

[Xstr8guy]

I'm afraid there's nothing in your little black bag for me (get the reference? hee hee)

How about, "Open to lots of things as long as my partner has the appropriate hardware and knows how to use it" :daddy: :donmike: :cheekymonkey:

Lol, got you covered!

[desslock]

I just watched that again a few weeks ago. That is truly one of the most unpleasant and unsettling movies I've ever seen. I couldn't recommend that to anyone. Lol. I don't even know why I watched it again.

LOL --- Crash has a special place for me. Back in 1999, while visiting Washington DC, on my last night, I hooked up with this guy at the now closed bar the Green Lantern. He was driving me back to his house in Arlington, VA when he crashed into a stopped truck on the highway at 60 mph. (Thanks to passenger side airbags, I'm still here)

Anyway, I broke my elbow. Back in Austin, I came back home and it took me several months to recover from the break, the nerve damage and the trauma. Add to this, this was year number seven with my boyfriend and I. By this time, we were pretty interested in doing other people.... to say the least.

So one night I'm hopped up on hydrocodone, in my arm cast, and Crash comes on IFC.... Crash, a creeoy movie about oversexed people in car wrecks.

Perhaps it just speaks right there - the answer to the question of this thread. On how mild or wild am I, and I invoke David Cronenberg's Crash.

Crash is playing this month on HBO Zone by the way. I recommend DVRing it.

Steve

[Xstr8guy]

So one night I'm hopped up on hydrocodone, in my arm cast, and Crash comes on IFC.... Crash, a creepy movie about oversexed people in car wrecks.

Perhaps it just speaks right there - the answer to the question of this thread. On how mild or wild am I, and I invoke David Cronenberg's Crash.

WOW! Ok. Give me a minute here...

You ARE a superfreak! Lol. Even I'm offended by your perversity. Don looks vanilla next to you.

j/k

[DonMike]

LOL --- Crash has a special place for me. Back in 1999, while visiting Washington DC, on my last night, I hooked up with this guy at the now closed bar the Green Lantern. He was driving me back to his house in Arlington, VA when he crashed into a stopped truck on the highway at 60 mph. (Thanks to passenger side airbags, I'm still here)

Anyway, I broke my elbow. Back in Austin, I came back home and it took me several months to recover from the break, the nerve damage and the trauma. Add to this, this was year number seven with my boyfriend and I. By this time, we were pretty interested in doing other people.... to say the least.

So one night I'm hopped up on hydrocodone, in my arm cast, and Crash comes on IFC.... Crash, a creeoy movie about oversexed people in car wrecks.

Perhaps it just speaks right there - the answer to the question of this thread. On how mild or wild am I, and I invoke David Cronenberg's Crash.

Crash is playing this month on HBO Zone by the way. I recommend DVRing it.

Steve

I saw it in a small second run theater in Pittsburgh where it had to have been about 90 degrees inside. I fell asleep. I do recall James Spader having sex with a dude, though. Or did I dream that part?

[desslock]

He did.... he fucked the janitor from the Breakfast Club in the ass.

It's worth another look. It's provocative, although a lot of people were kind of lost to it.

I'll mention another thing from Crash. This was the first time ever --- and here it was with heterosexuals (James Spader and Deborah Kara Unger) --- where I saw the couple coming home at night and having sex and describing to each other their individual sexploits with other people, while having their own sex.

Well once again, what can I say.... I remember watching this... still injured and on hydrocodone.... and thinking how this all kinda rings true.

Steve

[XXXWriterDude]

I'll mention another thing from Crash. This was the first time ever --- and here it was with heterosexuals (James Spader and Deborah Kara Unger) --- where I saw the couple coming home at night and having sex and describing to each other their individual sexploits with other people, while having their own sex.

That's hot! I love that!

[deanb]

I want a revote now! I want this one!

Open to lots of things as long as my partner has the appropriate hardware and knows how to use it :donmike: :donmike:

[Xstr8guy]

CRASH (1996) SPOILER ALERT!

He did.... he fucked the janitor from the Breakfast Club in the ass.

Elias Koteas was hot in the movie! He looks a lot like Law&Order SVU's Christopher Meloni. You can keep James Spader though.

But of course the guy did the typical thing that closeted gay men do in movies when they have gay sex for the first time. He went over the edge (literally) and killed himself. Bleah!

[Xstr8guy]

I want a revote now! I want this one!

Open to lots of things as long as my partner has the appropriate hardware and knows how to use it :donmike: :donmike:

I'll remove your original vote for you and put it in that category. Just PM me and I'll edit it.