I can understand how you'd end up frustrated but at the end of the day I think you have to accept hightened scrutiny as part and parcel to what you do.

ISPSs have every right to scrutinize to their own liking and per their own terms. Just because a bouncer sees a young looking patron walking out of the bar across the street doesn't mean he shouldn't bother asking them for ID when they try and get in to his bar. Further, ISPSs assume their own liability and risk and "But the other company said it was ok" isn't going to do them any favors if legal issues come up.

You have twink sites and sell twink content. Accept greater scrutiny as something that just comes along with selling that kind of product, keep your shit in order, follow the rules, and merrily move along making yourself money.

From CorbinFisher.com's perspective, we deal exclusively with models between 18-25. The vast majority are 18-23, even. But we stress their being "studs", "men", and a boyish model doesn't do us any good. So we're dealing with the exact same age group twink sites are, but face much less scrutiny. Not because we're any smarter or wiser, but simply because that's just the way it is.

As an analogy, I have a friend who lives in South America and makes a very comfortable living exporting flowers to the United States and Europe. He sometimes complains that his shipments get delayed at customs longer than the product growers in Europe and the US have to deal with when shipping between countries. But he accepts it as part of doing what he does, given the amount of... ahem... "illicit agricultural product" coming from the very same countries he exports out of. No one's calling him a narcotrafficker or picking on him. It's just that heightened scrutiny comes with the territory when you look at what he does and where he does it from.

Accept it. Move on. IMHO.