damn. all the fights i got on with my exes were so... boring

damn me and my passive aggressiveness.

rather than rip off the rear view mirror, i'd gradually adjust it ever so slightly over time in the hopes that he'd not notice and then one day get in a fiery, horrible accident by turning in to the path of an onrushing semitrailer in his blindspot.

i'm glad you guys sat down and had a talk and sorted some stuff out. sounds like you definitely got a lot goin on and a lot of stress comin from areas outside the relationship and those are bound to have an effect on the relationship itself. work stress, financial stress, health issues. those all can wear on a relationship and the people in it, as i'm sure you're plainly aware. i've been there too, recently laid off from a failed dotcom and supporting myself and a boyfriend from a quickly dwindling savings account. wasn't fun in the slightest.

you and i have talked plenty before and what's apparent is you're aggressive, driven and intent on making things happen so i'm sure things will take a turn for the better. I'll keep my fingers crossed that it happens sooner rather than later.