forgot to mention.

when posting video clip trailers.

make them small in Size and dont encode them at dvd quality.
use like wmv 300k encoding. qualitys good but not to good. LOL
make sure your surfers know that its lower quality on the outside and that inside you got DVD quality movies.

also DONT show Cum Shots!!!!. show just the right amount to make them wet but not enough to get them done LOL this will only make then use you as a place to wack for free!

look at this sites trailers

http://www.spoiledslut.com

its a hetro realitysite but the trailers sorta give the idea of what im talking about