have you asked natnet if they can do that for you? i know tony and cam hvae cpanel in their new natnet server although i don't know whehther natnet would offer you the rest of it.

my host is http://www.hosthead.com and we've been happy there for 2 years now. the owner, brad, is very accomodating and has done pretty much everything we've asked.

also i've heard nothing but good about http://www.isprime.com , so you might want to check them out.