i feel uncomfortable with "segregation" , i have no problem with gay/straight , lesbian/homosexual , etc. i expect "vacation" (restru/hotel/etc.) to accomodate all just as i would not want to be "excluded" (interpreted: being gay means being comfortable being you and the world around you , not "editing" the world to suit you.)
i understand the need for more "private-areas" where "sexual-activity" will/may occur but then those areas should be marked , otherwise the establishment appears to be some common "free for all" brothel of sluts and hoars at some "love-fest" hotel orgy convention. (i am not above being a slut but at my age the light of day is not so kind and i need the cover of darkness a hotel room provides!)
my overview of "gay-establishments" has always been one of charging more than "straight-establishments" (gay tax?) so when i travel i avoid guide books and look for those places situated close to where i want to be , usually several $100 less than a "gay resort"

sincerely ~ ..."it doesn't pay to be gay"...