wanting to be anything different than what you are is too me a sign of unhappiness - I dont think your going to find anyone who wants to change since spending so long in the closet hiding who they really are from friends and family - there is more than likely too much pressure to become straight as it is.

problem I see is that the younger ones who call themselves gay are not really - they hit on girls at the bars etc. - they are merely looking for a hole in the washroom wall to stick their dinky - as long as they get off they dont care whats on the other side.