Life would be a lot simpler for all of us if we simply took that approach, and I completely understand and respect why you do that, and wish I were better at it

I suppose I just hate to see good things go to shit and so I pitch in and try to facilitate change or improvement where I can. Sometimes it works completely, sometimes it makes a tiny difference, and sometimes there's no effect (and sometimes the attempt is probably ill advised.) But it's just hard, even when you're afraid of pleas falling on deaf ears, not to at least try.