You really need to pay for legal counsel from an attorney who knows and understands adult online issues. If you are starting a dating site there are things that you must commit funds -- you cannot start any business without spending money. Do not think that legal advice is one of those expenses you can skimp on or put off until the business is generating revenue. Legal advice should be an upfront cost that is just part of opening your business.

I say this without any ulterior motive. I am not taking any new clients and I don't get any benefit from referrals to other lawyers.