I love 3ways. A lot more when I'm the 3rd, you get all the fun and none of the relationship baggage

That said, I have been a long standing regular third with a couple of dear friends for about 3 years now. The policy has always been total communication - they moved overseas and come back often separately on business, but being that we all built up such a report, they play with me separately - being that i cant really be a threat to the relationship at this point. Clear boundaries and lots of nice conversation.

but yeah, what self respecting queer shows up with the sure-thing promise of group action and then backpedals??? for shame! Or like when it happens and someone plays favourites; just bad manners!

Simon - Gaytube.com