Quote Originally Posted by Cruisemaster View Post
"Violent" in the minds of many straight men would be as simple as taking anything up their ass. For most straight guys who might fantasize about gay sex, I suspect a great deal of the fantasy revolves around giving up control. Imagining the pleasure of what might happen if they allowed themselves to be "violated."
Totally.

Women have rape fantasies, but that doesn't mean they really wanted to be RAPED. For most guys who id as straight but get off on violent gay porn, this is probably the same thing; a rape fantasy. It's taboo, and that in itself is a huge turn-on: you've got rape fantasies, submission fantasies (taboo for men still), BIG HARD PECKERS (so taboo for straight guys), etc. plus the fear that if anyone found out they'd be humiliated/everyone would think they're freaks.

Some guys just love the thought of someone big and strong to stuff cocks and fists into all of their holes and hurt them so good. In my years of talking to men about their cockcentric fantasies, I've never heard any of them fantasize about doing violent things to other guys; if they are fascinated by that it's because they picture themselves on the receiving end.