I kind of agree with you JigG; some people just have to learn the hard way. It seems like the rights of passage for gay men are like getting chewed up and spit out and seeing how you cope with it. It's like putting yourself through a grater, and then learning who and what you are while you put yourself back together. Unfortunately a lot of the gay men I know have holes that'll never be filled for this reason.
I just have a habit of wanting to protect the sheep from the wolves. I guess that makes me a shepard? j/k
My question wasn't really worded right I guess, my question wasn't should gay.co* be held responsible for these things, but should they take proactive measures to be more responsible about how their service is used?