I am amazed, not just in the world of personals, at people who put up 10 or 15 year old pics of themselves. Sometimes I think the guys honestly believe they still look like that -- these are the 45 year old guys who put "But everyone tells me I look 22" -- but most of the time it's people who are either looking for younger guys or can't come to terms with getting older.

When we'd advertise for models who were white, under 25, slim, and Abercrombie look... we'd get tons of responses from guys in their 30s or even 40s, sometimes black or middle eastern, frequently very overweight... you just really have to wonder if people are that out of touch with their body image.