I'm putting up a reunion website for the schools in my hometown.

I evaluated http://www.handshakesdemo.com and www.alstrahost.com/friends .

The deal breaker with Handshakes is that they wanted to charge me $300 to "customize" their code to ask women for their "maiden name"!!!!!!!!!!

How the #$%^&*( can you have a high school alumni site and not search for a woman by their maiden name!?!?!?!?!

Even at the level I am with PHP, I would have like to do it myself, but supposedly I will have it up in a few days - and not have to re-invent the wheel with registration and photo albums.