I must be the only gay man in the world who has never "hooked up" with someone online. I've always been too worried about a guy showing up on my doorstep and looking nothing like his pic and then having to turn him away and risk him getting pissed off and doing something violent. If I really want to just get off with someone I'll go to a bathhouse or pick-up bar. I'd much rather see the merchandise up front and go for it there.

For you guys that do online hook-ups, what happened when the guy was not who he claimed to be?