In moderation, looking at porn should be fine. It's up to you to decide how much porn watching will get in the way of your relationships, and to make sure you don't cross that line. Remember that the routine and the responsibilities of married life tends to make people lose their sexual desires. It's up to us to make an effort to keep our sex lives alive.

While it probably was the case that most pornography was controlled by the mafia decades ago, I don't believe this is the case now. Many creators of porn right now are independent, thanks to the Internet and digital photography. My website with erotic photos of models is not pornographic, but I go through the same process other erotic photographers and webmasters do: choosing models, choosing a location and a time for the shoot, signing releases, paying the models, editing the photos, posting them online, and so on. I do everything related to the website all by myself.

And I am not going to stop taking photos of hot men. It's one of the main reasons why I get up in the morning.