these are the ones i submit to. haven't been tracking traffic, so couldn't tell you which ones send the best/most traffic. would be interested to know what others think

http://www.boybookmarks.net/
http://manpics2000.com/
http://www.maledirectory.com/
http://www.allgaydirectory.com/
http://www.only4gay.com/adultframe.htm
http://www.altagaylinks.com/main.htm
http://www.gaymenportal.com/
http://www.gaydemon.com/
http://www.hunkmen.com/
http://www.mygaylist.com/
http://www.sindbadbookmarks.com/
http://www.bentlinks.com/
http://www.freemalepictures.com/
http://www.queerstart.com/
http://www.hunkhunter.com/