Welcome Matt! Just took a brief look at your site and I like what I see. Are you just branching out into gay design or is it something you just don't show off on the site? I only ask out of curiosity (I totally get that you need to cater to the larger market!)

Also, do you work only to design spec from clients or do you have your own experience in using design to drive sales?
I might have some work for you in a couple of weeks. Although I can put together some decent banners I don't have the experience in generating high click-through and I really need someone who can create banners with some real power.