First of all, :welcome: to the GWW forum. As a content producer, yes, you're in the right place to reach other webmasters working in the gay market side of the adult business.

Secondly - Have you considered setting up an account with a clip site? I'd also look at selling the content with licenses and 2257 info to use it on paysites ... Bear is one of my heaviest trafficked niches.

As to a paysite you run yourself, how many sets do you have? You can start out a site with say 15-20 videos, add a video every week or even every other week .... and after say 3 months, start having the original videos slowly go off the site and become available again 6 months later. A rotation of some sort.

Just some other options to consider.

(and I agree with Jayden that $5 bucks sounds way too cheap... I am seeing 14.99 on average on the clips4sale site in gay)