Hello and welcome ... I have a longer response in your second thread, but would like to quickly mention something about tweaking the SEO of your http://mormongirlz.com page. You have a whole lot of exit commentary in actual HTML. When the search engines come by your site, they will pick up on all that garbage and not see a damn thing that tells the search engines what is actually in that site. Your site will go into the search engines with all that legal text to describe your site! Folks aren't going to find it using Google, Bing, etc. Put all the exit and warning stuff ONTO a picture. People can read it, but the search engines can't ~!

I recommend you replace all that legal jargon html and fill that space with hot descriptive text and use good keywords about your site's content in a conversational manner. You have the right conversational flow, but you are just not emphasizing the right material!