hammer, you don't state your opinion AS opinion - you state it as fact. when asked to back up that opinion with something, you state it again much more strongly. if i did this in my college or high school debate classes, i would have lost and failed. you have to have more than one thing to say in order for you are doing to be debate.

read any required textbook for human sexuality or psychology 101 and you will see a different opinion from yours - from many qualified and mostly straight professionals in these fields.

it seems to me your opinion on this subject is only based on what you want to believe. so far, you have failed to state one thing that might convince another person to consider your point of view - which is what debate is.

you seem like a pretty homophobic guy - and i can't figure out why you'd want to post on what is generally a very friendly GAY community board.