to me, you seem to be missing the fact that extreme bdsm is still concentual. visa isn't going to process for a site - even drawings - that makes it seem the content represents rape and more.

no one says you should name the pics "sweet kisses in the park". in fact, i was really specific - i suggested you try RAPE FANTASY instead of rape. if you equate RAPE FANTASY with sweet kisses in the park, you might have a very different worldview than the rest of us.