I meant no offense by comparing gay men to women. I strictly mean it in the sense that women tend to prefer romance rather than explicit porn. When my wife is willing to watch a porn movie with me she definitely prefers the movies that have a plot and she gets off on the fantasy more than the actual sex. Me, I just try not to fall asleep in between the sex scenes.

As far as pictures go, my wife doesn't like the explicit pictures of a woman sucking a guy's cock but does get excited if the guy and the girl in the pic are kissing and she has her hand on an obvious bulge in his pants.