Good one Don -- Most important points.

Hey Dawgy,

I think everyone here has been giving you some excellent pointers in the various related threads you've written lately about your quest for a man.

I can't stress enough that you've got to get out and be forward regardless of what type of a relationship you're looking for.

Dawgy, are you a drop-dead gorgeous guy who dresses flashy? Just wondering, because maybe a lot of guys are intimidated to go up to you. Too stand offish, too flashy, too gorgeous -- God he doesn't want to talk to me let alone jump into bed...

We're all thinking the same things.

Try something like this the next time you go out...

Go up to the guy and have a completely serious facial expression and an extended handshake and say,

"Hi! My name is Dawgy and I'm performing an exercise to eliminate my fear of approaching men whom I find attractive. Thanks for participating."

Then; with a sly smile on your face, go on your way...

It's an instant curiosity generator and it helps get you talking to guys.

Here's something else you can try...

"Hi, my name's Dawgy I'm here for a convention what are you here for?"

I've been there dude and it truly sucks. But I got out there and did something about it. Presently I'm in a real great partnership of 5 years with a guy who is 25 years older than me. So age isn't a barrier either.

cheers & hugs