Some great advice has been posted in here about how you can further your business.

One other thing to take into consideration to is that generally Lubes and Condoms are a much 'harder' sell when it comes to the surfer than things like sextoys, videos, and mags are.

Now add to the fact that you are only paying webmasters a one time, 5% referral for a sale you are going to lose more potential affiliates than you will gain.

Try to find a workaround whereby you can credit the webmaster with more $ per sale and as was mentioned above, offer several 'store types' so for example, have a store primarily for gay men, one for women and a more generalized store front.

You may find that adding something as simple as multiple storefront options will attract you some new affiliates

Regards,

Lee