Jasun,
once on the cruise ship I met a couple...
he: Professor of English and Ancient Greek language of NYU
his lover: 21 years old gold digger
( they were pissed when they were addressed by other as father and son ;=-)

we made friends fast and I never had problems with gay lifestyle ever since, knowledge is power.

as for my virginity....ask my wife, she might lease me,
she always threatens me with something when I am a bad boy
;-)))