I'm sorry to hear your hitting some snags. You are determind and talented so I'm sure you wont have this problem long.

Let me share some of my experience in the six years I've been doing this online.

In sales there are two factors relating to your success in closing a deal. 1) A qualified sales lead ( your surfer ) 2) Kick ass presentation of your product or service ( your site design and tour ).

People will give you all sorts of advice on how to create a money making tour, I suggest you goto the sites that are making a ton of money and see what their tours are like.

What your site is lacking, that they aren't, is a transparent tour. A trasparent tour is a tour that shows what your site looks like inside with access to content etc. disabled of course :-D Goto Sean Cody, Randy Blue, Amateur straight Guys, Hard n straight, etc. and see how they do it. Don't copy them, but learn from their framework. Oddly enough your Boyalley.net site is more similar to a transparent tour then the boyalley.com site.

It sounds like the traffic side isn't so much of an issue yet as MenOnTheNet is a good traffic source and should bring a hot new site with cute guys like your sales right away. But traffic is king and after you get even marginal sales you need to look at who's coming to your site and make sure they are qualified surfers. (TIP: One of the best ways to do this is get affiliates that put your banner on the inside of their members area ;-D ) you can't get surfers more qualified then that.

I love your tour, I think it's well thought out, different and has it's own sense of style. On the other hand it lacks a connection with the guys ( no short stories about them, the shoot, etc. ), doesn't project the depth of content you have in the site, and is similar to some rip off sites that show a bunch of hot guys and only have minimal content inside.

These days, as the surfer gets smarter and ripped off more often, it's important to show them on the outside EXACTLY what they'll get on the inside. And G rated works as well as X rated IMO.

Sorry to be so long winded. I hope this helps.