All feedback is good. I always tell people that negative feedback is actually better than good feedback. While it feeds our ego to hear that we're doing a good job, it's better for your friends to tell you your fly is open then to walk out on stage in front of the world and find out the hard way.

Having said that, here's one little bit of usefull negative feedback... I, personally do not like to be referred to as "a gay". It makes me think of when you hear people say "it's
'the gays' who are ruining our country" or "he's one of 'those gays'". Like we're not really people. Besides, lesbians are also gay, but that's a whole other ball of wax. Anyway, the part that says "find me a... 'gay'" sounds like something a right-wing religious fanatic says when handed a shotgun.

I'm not making fun, just using humor to make a point. You have a great idea, with a little tweaking I'm sure it will be an awesome site.

You know, come to think of it, how many Lesbian-only dating websites are there?