Breaking up realy sucks. I have been the one to break up with the guys that I have dated. It usualy was on the phone cause when I decide that its not going to work out I end up trying not to hang with them or there just big cry babies and I would be imbarased to have a scean like that in public. But when it gets down to it I tell it like it is. I let them know that I dont see a future in us. Because thats what it boils down to, to me. I try to be nice about it but they want to change and fix this and that. I dont want someone I can mold into what I see fit. I want them to just be. It doesnt take me too long to figure it out, which is why I havent had a long term relationship. Some of the time there wasnt anything that wrong with them. They just werent for me. I dont think alot of people quite understand the way I think which is a big reason I stopped dating alot of those guys. They didnt get me. They just Humored me. But once I layed down my feelings they could either sit there and digest and move on. Or they could sit there and cry (happend alot of the time) And then I would get angry and make it worse till I left or they did. So Im probably not the one on how do break up in an adult manner but this works for me. :wacko: :wacko: :wacko: :wacko: