The site is great, but the graphics DO take way to long to load. I also am not crazy about the dark blue links on the front page (when u type the domain without index.php) There should be a plain, light colored Enter link somewhere.

I think your prices are right on, and the highly detailed search is awesome. The only suggestion I can think of for features to add, would be a "featured member" or something similar on the front page. Feature one of the hottest guys profile each week/month, make the link open in a new window. That way anyone surfing through is one simple click away from seeing the kind of men featured on the site, the layout and style of profile pages, etc.