Even if you know there is a chance that it could cause some problems like health...? I mean yeah it could go well but it would go wrong. They are at a certain age in life that you have to consider.
I don't know, i just would never allow myself to that point.

My 2 cents still

Don, you said "Am I being more of a disservice to myself and my community?"... you know what, fuck the community... this is just between you and your family. It is a subject that only concerns you and the ones you love. You can't think about telling them just to help the community.

My 2 cents again

Love you Don