i doubt the site is aimed at black men at all. more likely it's aimed at white men who use that word in order to denigrate the men involved in order to denigrate the women.

what can i say? "******" is way outside my comfort zone, and promoting hate isn't way up there, either.

as far as giving words power, the people who USE the word have a meaning, which is what makes those sounds words. the meaning is pretty unpleasant, whether i accept it or not.