options to costs of production.

ideally both - server based and desktop.

i have a program from digi-net.com but i am not happy with it so have not deployed it into my network.

some off the shelf programs offer video etc, but are not easy for the end user to use - some use flash, i like to keep away from that.

i want a product that connects to my mysql database, allows members to add and remove - chat, send offline messages - all msn functions really.