You know, i got to say i love trading links with people for their site however, in complete contrast to your experience, i have always found it much easier to trade links in the adult industry compared with non-adult.

I even posted on some of the larger populated resource forums last year asking for link trades and several people replied that they didnt like trading links because 'i have no control over your site' LOL

They didnt seem to understand the concept of inbound/outbound links and how they could benefit them.

Regards,

Lee