FIRST: Sorrry for the explicit, hoping to not offend anyone.
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Originally Posted by
LavenderLounge
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Wow. Wow.
Very interesting.
One thing you mentioned in the article is about Barebacking online. Barebacking in porn....
If someone wants to bareback, they are going to do it regardless if it's in front of a video camera. Or if they're looking for that quick hookup.
I am a barebacker. Yes, I most certainly am. Am I HIV-, HELL YES.
There is:
Safe Sex - Condom Use
Sleaze Barebacking - HIV at Risk
Safe Sex in Bareback - Knowing your partner.
Sleaze barebacking are those who go out to a bath house. They hookup with 10 guys there. They dump their loads in another guys ass, leaves him, goes to another guy, takes his load up his ass, goes on. ANONYMOUS HOOKING UP. He doesn't know anything about anyone.
HENCE "PNP" and Meth... Those who generally do it are the "Sleaze Barebackers." I've seen it.
Safe Sex Barebacking are those who find a fuck buddy, a lover, a hookup... They are cautious about who they fuck, who they let cum inside them, who they let them cum inside. They ask status, They pull out when they cum. They don't have multiple partners.
I have had sex with 3 different people in 4 years. I became a barebacker when I was 16. I had a high school girlfriend. We couldn't fuck at her house, we couldn't fuck at mine. We found a train tracks, we fucked there. Couldn't stay hard, I tossed the condom out somewhere off to the side, fucked her there.
2 weeks later, I cheated on her with a boyfriend I secretly had. I was bottoming for him. He was VERY endowed. The condom felt like a slab of rubber inside me. Felt very uncomfortable. I asked him to take it off. He did. Felt soooooooooo much better.
I went through a slut phase in San Diego, California. I was there 8 months and I probably had more than 150 partners. I was at the bath house nightly. I threw sex parties 2-3 times a week. I barebacked all the way through it.
This was 4 years ago. I am still 100% clean, and 100% HIV-.
It's all in how you bareback. Yes, even though the top pulls out, there's still a risk. But a smaller risk. I asked every single person what their status was.
We would fool around and have foreplay, then when it came time to "stick it in." I'd stop him and ask again.
Just because they say they are HIV- doesn't always mean they are.
There's places like Folsom Street Fair (as you mentioned) - We will not support, there's places like "Sleaze Pits." I'm sure some of you know what they are... we won't support.
We know what goes on there, you will never see us there.
I do however love your article, and I printed it off to show Phil when he comes in later.