Other than two lipstick's going to town and looking like to paid straight girls how do you put sexy in bull dyke?
I just can't wrap my head around two butch mullet headed truck drivers ripping flannel off one another and being sexy.
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Other than two lipstick's going to town and looking like to paid straight girls how do you put sexy in bull dyke?
I just can't wrap my head around two butch mullet headed truck drivers ripping flannel off one another and being sexy.
a couple things come to mind here. one is that lots of men like the entire trucker/rough guy thing, so why wouldn't women? the other is that there are plenty of lesbians who are neither femme nor a "bull dyke". i once saw this chick who stuck in my mind till now. she looked like a slender rocker / punk boy and very androgynous in her tight ripped jeans, black leather jacket and boots.. she was sexy as hell!
... excuse me ... I need a few minutes to myself ....Quote:
Originally Posted by basschick
HAHA! No... I fully think the lil androgynous basebakk cap, short hair, spunky girls with Converse shoes, an emo/punk shirt and acid wash jeans on ate cute as hell.
Bass,
As a gay man, I can see and understand man on man leather sex between two hairy muscle bound daddies with no problem.
As a gay man I can't see this between a set of bulls.
Are they going to violently tongue one another?
If we are talking s&m, a woman has all the parts needed for it. Tits can be bound, clit and lips can be tortured, so on and so forth.
But Bull's are not a stereotype of a BSDM couple.
A bull and a lipstick, two lipsticks, two bulls, boy dyke with boy dyke and so on.
At the end of the day, a woman is a soft being who has a caring nature about her and her partner. (men as well but not as instinctual as it is between women) And yes, I have seen some mean dykes but that doesn't make their love/hate relationship any less.
Ok, Maybe on the level of two "real" dykes this would be hot. Kissing, grabbing, man handling and being masculine about it but with a real "I fucking dig on you hard!" emotion behind it.Quote:
I just can't wrap my head around two butch mullet headed truck drivers ripping flannel off one another and being sexy.
The raw lust would rock the situation into a real feeling that would be sexy and erotic.
Who knows, I'm weird.
You don't. You CAN'TQuote:
Originally Posted by IdolKnights
wow, i thought only straight guys had these stereotypes and prejudices in their heads. why shouldn't 2 tough women be just as sexy as 2 tough men? "a woman is a soft being"? what kind of victorian bullshit is that from a person in the 2000s? that's part of the same belief system that says all gay men speak in an exaggeratedly feminine way and who tend only toward hairdressing or interior decoration as careers and can't keep themselves from molesting minors.
if 2 bears together can be sexy, why not 2 women with a lot of the same characteristics? they may not be sexy to MEN, but then i can't see why a lesbian needs to be sexy to men...
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Originally Posted by IdolKnights
But it is ... if you're a lesbian and happen to get turned on by the butchier woman as opposed to the more femme dyke. We like certain body styles, hair color, etc just like gay men have a preference for certain types of men. I'll take a flannel clad, tool belt totin', short nailed, rugged look over a lipstick femme any day. I'm NOT saying I'm into the whole boi or my dyke has to be a daddy or talked about using "he" pronoun ... just saying I like that butchier body style.
Ooooo. IdolKnights, Spaceglider... you guys are lucky that we don't have more women on this forum or you'd be getting a severe beat-down for your awful sterotypes. Lol.
I'll be the first to admit that I know nothing about lesbian porn. But I would guess that anything that gay men (or even straight men or women) find sexy is going to have a lesbian counterpart. Just switch the genders around and VOILA... porn for gay women.
It's just another one of those things in this biz where lack of understanding is probably your first clue that you should stay away from working in that area. Or risk doing it totally wrong.
You say that like it's a bad thing ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Xstr8guy
'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.'Quote:
Originally Posted by IdolKnights
- some famous author
;)
I personally don't find either sexy. My opinion stems from the tirades and lectures I've been extended by women whom you would call "bulldykes" who have made if very clear that they loathe what I do because the whole "pornography" machine objectifies women. And my great suggestion about a lesbian Players Club strip joint almost got my heart ripped out.Quote:
Originally Posted by basschick
Not one single woman on any of my sites to objectify. I think I'm safe. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by SPACE GLIDER
Btw, a few negative experiences should not cause you to form an opinion of a 'people' that may not be true. I certainly don't want everyone thinking that all gay men are hairdressers and talk with a lisp just because those are the only gay men that they know.Quote:
Originally Posted by SPACE GLIDER
prej·u·dice
–noun 1. an unfavorable opinion or feeling formed beforehand or without knowledge, thought, or reason.
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Originally Posted by Xstr8guy
Oh i don't believe in generalizations for the most part, but I will admit that I was under the impression that this was the prevailing opinion
A few minutes?Quote:
Originally Posted by Bec
Here is some better or additional motivation: Claudia Black!
Hehhe ... that could take up an entire afternoon ....Quote:
Originally Posted by Paco
now add to that thought the cute & sexy outfits the :beauty: wears in SG1!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bec
One thing that is definitely disappointing to me as a lesbian in the adult industry is there is very little real lesbian porn. Most of it is gay for pay. I mean real lesbians do not suck on dildos and strap ons. And nevermind if the women are more butch or femme, lipstick, bull dyke, or whatever label you want to use. I tried to have a man do a more realistic lesbian video shoot and it wasn't what I wanted. This is definitely a problem I hope to rectify. It seems from this thread only lesbians can know what lesbians want to see.
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Originally Posted by Becky
I seem to recall one time in San Diego that 'someone' just happened to have a big old 12 inche pale cream dildo with her and was waving it around like a mad woman LOL
You know, id actually have to agree with that, i have spoken to a lot of people about 'real' lesbian porn over the years and both content providers and affiliate webmasters simply cant get their heads around the fact that what is currently called 'lesbian' in the industry, simply isnt.Quote:
It seems from this thread only lesbians can know what lesbians want to see.
In fact, i can only recall ever seeing 1 photo set a couple of years ago that even looked a little like it could have been used for a 'real' lesbian site.
Regards,
Lee
I totally agree with you: most of the videos and photoshoots are done with bisexual (gay-for-pay) models and are produced for male viewers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Becky
I always though it would be best to have a female videographer or (if stuck with a dick on the other end of the cam) have the models do as they wish while the cam jockey simply does their job (push the record button).
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Originally Posted by Becky
Would be nice to have something produced by lesbians for lesbians with lesbians.
Lee I never said lesbians don't have dildos, we just don't suck on them LOL I love my dildos :heartu:
I've been thinking about producing real lesbian content for a few months now. I'm just not sure how to proceed on that front. I definitely think there is a market for it that no one else caters to.
Becky is driven...trust me on this one ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by IdolKnights
Well, I don't know about watching two bull dykes get off together, but I sure as hell get a little turned on watching the women on The L Word get down to it! Does this make me bi-curious, or just a male oppressor!? LOL! :)
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Originally Posted by Becky
There is www.cyber-dyke.net ... with www.Darkplay.net produced for and by lesbians and several other sites are in the sponsor group as well. I've been wanting a REAL lesbian paysite for lesbian women ever since I got into the adult biz ... but content is totally non existant (short of some solos I've seen using european/Russian women who were more "natural" looking) and would have to be custom produced.
If anyone gets around to actually making and selling real lesbian for lesbian content, I have Amazon Lust and Erotica For Lesbians ready and waiting!
... and no, I don't suck on my dildos either ....
call me totally stupid here but...
I don't have a clue as to what the female sex does behind closed doors (and I'm not sure I want to know)
however, do girls fist each other?
Guess we remember the old adage that "beauty isi the eyes of the beholder". What we may not understand or like doesn't mean that it isn't sexy.
Sure to butchier type women can be sexy. And, of course to "lip stick lesbians can be sexy.
I have many lesbian friends, in fact two serverd on our Board of Directors for many years. They all, without exception tell me that their only objection to the current lesbian porn is that for the most part, they actors aren't lesbian...they are straight women with spike heels and inch long red fingernails trying to imitate what they THINK lesbians do.
You put sexy in "bull dyke" by kissing, hugging, licking,, caressing, emotional connections, eye contact and fucking with dildos and/or strap ons. Not unlike gay porn with the exception of the strap ons.
And yes, Tony, women do fist. Hell, they are the lucky ones, the have two holes to fist and I understand that anal and vaginal fisting for many lesbians....and straight women by the way, is a big thing in certain communities. Much larger than many of us would have believed.
I am most certainly not the expert in lesbian porn but this is what I'm told by my many lesbian friends.
Bill
I'm with you on the first part and regarding the L Word, sexy show...Quote:
Originally Posted by XXXWriterDude
lesbian, bi, straight but curious - how bout if they just don't suck on dildos, stare into the camera or do everything they can to keep from getting the taste of pussy on their tongue?
the worst part of straight men directing lesbian porn is that they try and make the wiomen do things they're not comfortable with and they'd rather the women focus on them - the viewer - rather than their partner.
if a chick doesn't want to taste pussy, how about a great toy or fingering session instead of making her stare soulfully into the camera while sticking her tongue out as far as is humanly possible? if a girl really isn't comfortable deeply kissing another girl, they could hug and embrace first, although perhaps that girl shouldn't be doing lesbian scenes.
to me, the big program with straight male shot girl/girl is that to a straight guy, lesbian sex is about him. in fact, that's a problem i have with a lot of straight porn, too. unless the video is pov, why would the woman spend 3/4 of her time starring at the camera? is she having such a lousy time that the penis, fingers and tongue of her partner just don't interest her?
since everybody else is jumping on the topic of dildos: I always get a chuckle when I see the faux flesh & veiny dildos (look like dicks) enter the scene/picture
The ones with :balls: are even more ironic.
Telltale signs that they are meant for males.
Oh i know how to solve that problem...Quote:
Originally Posted by basschick
Empty a pot of yogurt 'down there' kill 2 birds with the one stone haha
Does strawberry yogurt work for thrush or just plain old yogurt?
Regards,
Lee
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Originally Posted by Lee
Oh Gross! How do you Brits come up with such shit?:p
Bill
That's an eye-opener. Seen so MUCH of thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Becky