a couple things come to mind here. one is that lots of men like the entire trucker/rough guy thing, so why wouldn't women? the other is that there are plenty of lesbians who are neither femme nor a "bull dyke". i once saw this chick who stuck in my mind till now. she looked like a slender rocker / punk boy and very androgynous in her tight ripped jeans, black leather jacket and boots.. she was sexy as hell!