Harlow Cuadra Blog - intersted read

Okay, so I was reading the xbiz article today about the Cobra Murder, and I noticed that Harlow still blogs from jail (which is interesting, I didn't know that jail was that laid back that you could just blog the day away). Anyway, to my point, so I was reading his blog, which he has to get donations, and I found this last entry interesting.

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ok folks lets get real here…………… You are all a bunch of whining ass bitches who run your mouths to much and as of today i am not posting your stupid blog comments any longer either shut up or go away which ever you perfer but if you dont support harlow then get off his blog page and shut the hell up! YOU ALL WHINE TO DAMN MUCH HE IS THE ONE IN JAIL AND YOU ARE ALL WHINING ABOUT HIM LIKE A BUNCH OF GIRLS!( and if you dont like my caps get off of here also, dont really give a shit if you like it or not anymore) i am sick to death of posting all of your nonsense you are suppose to be grown individuals and you act like you are five years old bickering on a blog, GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and if you dont like what i am posting here and you dont like the way i spell it , write it, or anything else i dont give a rats ass, get off of harlows blog. You nosy bitches werent invited here in the first place and if you dont like the fact that his voice sounds like he is in a tin can, cause he was in jail and recorded that over the phone, then go some place else you are not wanted or needed here. I have sat here for almost two months and listened to you nasty, vile people, you are like bad hound dogs on a hunt, well folks the hunt is over on harlows blog, get the hell off here and fight on someone elses blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you arent here to support him, then get out and stay out. You surely arent welcome here any longer and i am not gonna sit here and allow you to do this every day, day in and day out. I have finally had enough of this, i agreeded with harlow to start with, to post everyones comments good or bad but you people have just gone off the deep end on this and you all need to see a shrink and have your heads screwed back on the right way. SO WHETHER YOU LIKE MY BIG LETTERS OR NOT I DONT GIVE A SHIT , WHETHER YOU FEEL HARLOW IS INNOCENT OR GUILTY I DONT GIVE A SHIT, IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING POSITIVE TO SAY TO HIM THEN GET THE HELL OFF OF THIS BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!! YOUR BLOGS AS OF TODAY WILL NOT BE POSTED IF THEY HAVE ANY NEGATIVE CONTENT IN THEM……. HINT , HINT , IF YOU DONT LIKE IT THEN SCREW OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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http://www.harlowcuadraonline.com/blog/

Okay, maybe I am not an expert at getting donations from the jailhouse, but I am not sure that this is the way that I would be doing it. Would anyone REALLY give these people donations, expecially with posts like this??

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Originally Posted by deanb

Okay, maybe I am not an expert at getting donations from the jailhouse, but I am not sure that this is the way that I would be doing it. Would anyone REALLY give these people donations, expecially with posts like this??

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I'd like to meet the person who did. You, know ... just to see if they'll be wearing some sort of special helmet that prevents them from hurting themselves.

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....i agreeded with harlow to start with, to post everyones comments good or bad...

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Just goes to show that these days you really gotta be careful about what exactly you're agreeding to, before you go ahead and do it....

While not my proudest moment I too have been to jail. Nothing serious, and I was not in federal custody (not sure if Harlow is) but there was definitely not a pc/laptop for anyone to use. Makes me wonder if it is really him blogging

--Chubbs

Just read some of the blog. Not Harlow. Looks like a friend of his doing the entries.

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Originally Posted by deanb

Okay, maybe I am not an expert at getting donations from the jailhouse, but I am not sure that this is the way that I would be doing it. Would anyone REALLY give these people donations, expecially with posts like this??

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Kinda like a directory sign up page that starts off with ... READ The Fucking Rules. Not real warm and welcoming.

I don't know who the boy has for an Atty, but he best pull the plug on his Drama Llama.

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Originally Posted by Madame0120

Kinda like a directory sign up page that starts off with ... READ The Fucking Rules. Not real warm and welcoming.

I don't know who the boy has for an Atty, but he best pull the plug on his Drama Llama.

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I agree with you here, even if he has a friend posting for him, its under his name, and it looks like nothing more than a SEVERE anger management issue... Probably not one of the things that you really want brought up so much during a murder trial.

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Originally Posted by Madame0120

Kinda like a directory sign up page that starts off with ... READ The Fucking Rules. Not real warm and welcoming.

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Unfortunately, when a submission page starts like that, there is usually a good reason, most webmasters are dumb as dirt when it comes to the simple stuff.

I used to get a bunch of submissions on CumSoda from the same guy everyday, even though he was banned and he never got a single gallery accepted because he didnt follow the rules.

I know Michael keeps getting FHGs submitted to his sites to, which he clearly states arent allowed, but dumb webmasters STILL submit them anyway.

Sometimes stating (like that) that you have to read the rules before submitting it what is needed for the idiots flooding the industry at the moment.

Regards,

Lee

I suspect that Harlow doesn't know what his "friend" is writing. He supposedly checks over everything that's read (it's printed out and mailed to him), but I would guess he won't see this rant.

I think the blog maintainer is frustrated that so many people have posted that Harlow is a murderer and this and that, but if you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.

Harlow and Joe's friend is absolutely doing the best (s)he can. Works a full time job, has 3 kids and a nutty spouse, trying to keep up their website without ANY internet, porn or marketing experience (main means of income to pay the attorneys at this point) and the blog, keeping up with donations, responding to journalists, etc. Also just signed a note to pay an attorney (BIG $$$) because (s)he believes, as I do, that Harlow is innocent. Yes (s)he is totally stressed out. To the max. But (s)he is helping a friend in need, and I thank God for people like him/her.

There is WAY more to this story than what has been released by the investigators. Trust me, the other side of the story will come out soon enough. As SebSloPro stated in the Appraising Brent Corrigan thread:

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It may not be revealed today, it may not be revealed tomorow. But it will come out into the light.

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Those of you who believe "if you're innocent, you've got nothing to worry about" I say go to wm3[dot]org, and read how 3 teenagers were arrested and convicted of a triple homicide with absolutely no evidence ever found , simply because they wore "black and listened to (so-called) satanic (heavy-metal) music". Those 3 teenagers remain in prison to this day, 14 years later, one of whom is on death row. Hmm, they didn't wear the right clothes, listened to funny music, otherwise didn't fit in with the rest of society... one was even rumored to be (gasp) homosexual... I wonder how many of us have been in a similar situation...

Kerekes gave an interview with a newspaper here and he tries to explain away some of the evidence... http://www.timesleader.com/news/2007...is_ed_ART.html

“Harlow said he got there the door was partially open. He looked inside and saw an overturned table and smelled smoke. He said he saw someone on a couch or chair, and heard a noise upstairs, like someone was about to come down,” Kerekes said.

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Originally Posted by Matt 26z

Kerekes gave an interview with a newspaper here and he tries to explain away some of the evidence... http://www.timesleader.com/news/2007...is_ed_ART.html

“Harlow said he got there the door was partially open. He looked inside and saw an overturned table and smelled smoke. He said he saw someone on a couch or chair, and heard a noise upstairs, like someone was about to come down,” Kerekes said.

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Harlow first claimed that he was with a client the night of the murder. Now his boyfriend places him in the house near the time of the murder, assuring that prosecutors will get to illuminate that Harlow apparently lied to investigators initially. That kills any credibility -- I am sure everyone has seen a TV lawyer show where the lawyer catches the witness in a lie and gets to say "Are you lying now or were you lying then??"

It is not smart to discuss a case with the press before it is tried -- a lesson I learned as a prosecutor when I had little to lose, not when it was my name on an indictment accused of a murder. Now this newspaper story and every quote in it can probably be used as evidence, especially the parts that contradict earlier statements.

I saw Ron White in concert recalling when he was arrested for being drunk in public. He said "They told me I had the right to remain silent but I didn't have the ability"
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Some of the so-called "statements" attributed to Harlow by various media sources were taken "over the telephone"; Harlow told me he has not made such statements by phone.

And once again, I believe it is Joe speaking in this interview, not Harlow.

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Originally Posted by chadknowslaw

It is not smart to discuss a case with the press before it is tried -- a lesson I learned as a prosecutor when I had little to lose, not when it was my name on an indictment accused of a murder. Now this newspaper story and every quote in it can probably be used as evidence, especially the parts that contradict earlier statements.

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I appreciate your comment Chad, I just wish that Joe would learn the lesson...

Regardless of which co-defendant is speaking, their attorneys need to tell them to shut up. Anything they say can and will be used against them; explanations and claims of innocence will be parsed, examined, and picked apart by prosecutors. Statements and writings attributed to them and published on their domain can be used against them or used to shake them up during cross-examination if they choose to testify.

This is not the type of case that will be won in the press -- interviews like this can only hurt their case.

If Joe had been my client I would have wanted to strangle him! I am sure he wanted to paint himself in a good light, but newspaper writers lie to get interviews, they edit, "paraphrase" and in the end they write stories that sell papers, not exonerate anyone. The time for making such statements like Joe did is at trial, not in the press before the trial begins.

There is a lot of evidence that will be presented that needs to be refuted or explained if they want a jury to return the "not guilty" verdict, so the defense needs to have every option and strategy available because the stakes are as high as you can get. Public statements like this actually limit the defense attorney's options as he tries to blur the picture the prosecutor will try to paint. Even if Joe does not testify, this article and his quotes can be shown to the jury -- and that could force the defense lawyer to put Joe on the stand to testify, which will open him up to cross examination, and at this time, with my limited knowledge of the co-defendants, as a defense lawyer I would want to avoid putting them on the witness stand.

Hi All,
I just talked to the woman who's now running Harlow's estate in his absence. Most notably she's not from the adult industry, marketing, or online marketing. She doesn't know porn, but she's trying her best to run boybatter.com right, and doing all she can to raise their traffic and memberships.
Her initial quests for help from other gay industry people have been negative, so she's feeling a bit unwelcome. I suggested that she look for help here on GWW. She's learning, and it looks like succeeding in keeping boybatter up and actually increasing the traffic and membership.
If she takes my advice and shows up on the board, I was hoping that she might get a bit of support. If you think about it, it's a pretty crazy situation. If it were a made-for-tv movie this would be the quick description "When her friend is thrown in jail, one woman must fight against all odds to become a successful gay pornographer in order to get him out."

I can see how it's possible that Harlow arrived after the murder and used the initial alibi in fear of being wrongly accused. Maybe even their recorded conversations in CA was just them taking credit for something they didn't really do. But it's very difficult to explain away Bryan's video camera being found in their home. That for me nails the lid shut.

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Originally Posted by Matt 26z

it's very difficult to explain away Bryan's video camera being found in their home.

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That is a very hard fact to explain away. If I went into house, saw a dead guy on the couch and smelled smoke, I would not grab the video camera and run out. And then keep the camera.:curtain:

I would get out of the house and call the police -- right away.

well and... keep in mind that Joe and Harlow have hardly seen each other since May when they were arrested. A few hours in the police cruiser together while being transported from VA to PA, an hour here or there while in the holding cells awaiting their various court appearances.

Note that Harlow hasn't said a word other than proclaiming his innocence and saying that Brent "did what he felt he had to do." While Joe is the one offering up the detailed account of what happened.

It's very possible that Joe is selling Harlow out 100% to try to save his own ass, and what Joe's now saying is completely untrue. (This is not to say that the previous story, that they were in Virginia Beach, with a prostitution customer to serve as their alibi, was truth either.)

The sad thing is, we may *never* know exactly what happened. The cases for Joe and Harlow are separate, so it's possible, and likely, that their defense counsels may encourage one to turn on the other, and one or both may plead out. I also would not be at all surprised to see Sean or Grant or both to be charged with something (at the very least, accessory after the fact, given the alleged "I guess my guy went overboard" comment.) Some sources say that the immunity granted isn't universal, and that would definitely be an interesting development.

But I hope when it's all over, there are some answers that make at least some sense.

Where is Nancy Grace in all this????

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Originally Posted by chadknowslaw

Where is Nancy Grace in all this????

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Haha i love Nancy Grace, itd be great to see what she said about all this LOL

Regards,

Lee

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Originally Posted by chadknowslaw

Where is Nancy Grace in all this????

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Probably waiting for Brent to leave porn.... "Ohhh that poooor boy. Manipulated into doing porn, brainwashed. And then MURDER to further control him." Sounds about like what we'd hear.