I've had a bunch of blog post our stuff and be quite nice about taking stuff down when I sent them a note.

I usually offer them sponsor content as a sacrificial lamb.

They never take it but it makes us seem "nicer" I guess.

the good bloggers (and smart bloggers) are the ones who'll take a bit.. join the program, promote, not steal, not give away full scenes and send traffic to the sponsor to make them some money.

There ARE a few of those.. just not many.