I went to a party in Weho on Saturday night, an area I rarely go into anymore, and I heard a few different younger guys talking about how horrible it is for an older guy to hit on them.

I'm 37 and chunky (that's "old" and "fat" by Weho standards) and I hadn't realized how much I've let that LA attitude of needing to be young and thin affect me until Saturday night. I went home feeling all depressed and down on myself. But I finally realized that people come in all shapes and sizes, ages and types. And there are many more 'average' looking people then there are beautiful people. So why should we hate ourselves for not having 0% body fat or chiseled features?