Instead of pushing the safe sex aspect so much and not buying bareback porn, why don't you get Jesse to suggest people talk to their partners before they get naked. Safe sex is not our number one weapon against HIV, communication is.

They've been running a campaign in Toronto that essentially talks about the misconceptions people have: "If he's willing to fuck me without a condom, he must be negative."

Seems to me that most people aren't talking about what is acceptable for them, what is safe for them, and what's going to happen if they get high (or higher). They just jump in the sack and start doing it. The worst time to try and negotiate safe sex is when you've got a hard dick pushing up against your butt hole. That is the top's way of non-verbally asking you, "Is this okay?" If you spread your legs, he has his answer. But had you talked about it before you got naked, he probably wouldn't have even gone there.

Cheers
Michael