these are words we won't use:
teen
boys
piss (ex. pissedoffhunks.com or any other variations with the word piss in it).
escort or referring to hustlers
drunk or insinuating in someone being intoxicated.
anything referring to drug use

I know some sound stupid. but I came across a site last week that appears to be doing very successful and it had the word "tweeker" in it. Of course it's doing well, it's attracting tweekers. These people make homemade videos when they're partying. They didn't show it on the videos, but you could just tell.