From what I'm seeing, you've got your ducks all lined up just right. The dixter tour is pleasing color wise and has a definate 2.0 feel about it, and the guys are what you say they are: masculine, amateurs, and a bit rough.

The site name is certainly original and quite brandable. I like the logo design/font used for it.

Can I ask what CMS you're using and is that a transparent tour? If so you seem to be showing nice sized model pics, good text to support each one, and plenty of video viewing options. Definately a site I'd look to promote on a jock niched hub or blog. The one thing I didn't sit and work out though is how often you update? That needs to be done on a very regular basis.

Your affiliate tools need expansion, but you're already working on that. Offering an affiliate trackable rss feed would be the one other item I'd recommend you look at adding to the list.

Perhaps investing in some webmaster board advertising, or at least being a bit more involved on various boards, would draw more attention to the program.