I'll speak as an enduser also and say that if you're using Flash streaming that does not allow the user to jump around any part of the video instantly (assuming they have broadband) you are probably going to lose that member very soon. And Flash videos that do not give the option of full screen are also something I hate.

Sometimes I think webmasters need to remember why they got into the biz, which I assume is because they liked to j/o to naked men videos. Put yourself in the customers place and create a site that you would pay for and use.

But my real reason for entering this discussion is to ask if anyone has ever considered a two tier membership option, say $14.95 for Flash streaming non-downloadable videos and $24.95 for WMV or MOV videos you can save. It's sort of the difference between "leasing" the content and "buying" it. Consumers are accustomed to the idea of "leasing" in other areas (cars, homes, etc.) so why not porn?