I'm still trying to figure out what is badingdong? , is it something asian or did you mean bad ding-dong (cake)?

I noticed the "straight" ad's but figured you were trying "cross sales" ( interpreted: ..." straight's are people too "... and one day they will discover the way of gay enlightment but until that time we must be vigilant in our efforts to make them feel welcomed for that is the way of gay - dali jimala )

jim